What does the word friendship mean to you?

How do you feel when around your friends?

Do you have friends?

My dictionary explains friendship as being in a state of friendly disposition/feeling….alas,the word friendship still comes up in the definition of the word.For me i could well describe friendship as that inestimable jewel of association that will always remain by your side through thick and thin.

Do i have friends? sure i do have friends but one thing i do not do is just pick up friends.I have friends that i have know for two decades running and we are still very good friends.

Friendship  is a very sensitive issue that is always taken for granted and most often times abused.A Friend is a companion ,a friend is a pacifier, a friend is always there in times of need.A friend accepts you irrespective of your shortcomings and tolerantes you in every sense of it .

Imagine a world without friends…..i dare not think along that line ,it will be a total disaster.Friendship can be likened to signing a bond of loyalty,where there exists a kind of symbiotic relationship between the pair,you look out for me, i look out for you.I have some things and qualities you don’t have and you most likely have the same too,we complement ourselves and make life a better place to live in.

I came across a story that explains how friendship go a long way in saving a life ,read enjoy and adopt to your everyday life and see if this life will be a better place or not:

There were two friends who were the best of friends since a very young age. As little girls, they used to go to school together, play together and sometimes even stay at each others places. They were next door neighbors and thus their parents were also friends. They both finished school and went to the same college. Everyone knew they were the best of friends. There was nothing that was hidden between them and both knew each other inside out.

After some days, one friend found the other acting strange. She would remain withdrawn, sleep too much and turn violent if provoked. At first the other friend thought it was just the studies getting on to her. But with time, she became even more moody and frustrated. Finally her friend couldn’t take it any longer and confronted her with the problem. She broke down and confided that she was involved emotionally with a guy and he was taking drugs and forcing her to take them too. The other friend listened to her tell the shocking story. She was not only forced to take drugs but was also forced to bring money every now and then and was threatened with dire consequences if she told anyone.

Her friend was too shocked to think anything and advice her right then. So she made sure that while her friend cried herself to sleep, she would think of a way to help her. Finally she thought that she would come up straight to the point and tell her to leave this guy and get a life. She contacted the college counselor who was a psychologist and told her the problem. She offered to help and also said that matter would be kept under wraps.

The girl was then advised by her friend to leave this guy as he was torturing her unnecessarily. Her friend reminded her of her dreams of becoming a successful professional, inspired her to set an example for others and reminded of what her parents would feel if they found out what their daughter was upto. After a lot of cajoling and talking, she finally agreed to leave him. She was given basic counseling and was weaned off drugs quite fast. All this while, her friend never left her side and always stood by her.

Finally they graduated and the friendship only grew stronger. They both went on to become successful professionals but never let each other down by adopting foolish habits. Thus, true friends are those who inspire you to become the best you can ever be. They have full confidence in you and won’t rest till you achieve your goal.