In life, there comes a time when finally get it…….. when suddenly BOOM in the midst of all your fears and insanity you stop dead in your tracks and then that inner voice that has always lived with you from the very inception you began to think,and it shouts aloud to you……ENOUGH!!!!!!!!
Enough of the crying ,enough of the lamentations,enough of the struggle ,and like a child being pacified you quiet down ,amidst the sobs you wipe away hot tears ,probably a shudder or two,then you realize and begin to see life through new eyes.
The awakening creeps in, you can see it now , its all clearer now , the haze has began to fizzle out.You realize its time to stop hoping and waiting for something to change or for happiness,safety and security to come running your way.You realize that you are not prince charming and she is not Cinderella and that in the real world there aren’t always fairy tale endings and that any guarantee of “happily ever after “.
You realize all of a sudden that you are not perfect and of course not everyone will always love ,appreciate or approve of who you or what you are which is OK really because really everyone is entitled to his\ her opinion .You learn the importance of loving and championing yourself and in the process a sense of new found confidence is born of self –approval.
You stop complaining and blaming other people for the things they did to you (or didn’t do for you) and you learn that the only thing you can really count on is the unexpected. You learn that people don’t always say what they mean or mean what they say and that not everyone will always be there for you and that it’s not always about you. So, you (more…)








